Stories from a career dropout - Femke Buijs

Disillusioned with traditional career paths? Femke Buijs shares her story of self-discovery, redefining success, and embracing the "derterminal" concept, highlighting the importance of support, fulfillment, and personal growth.

Key takeaways
  • Trying out different paths can be beneficial as it allows you to discover what works for you and what doesn’t, even if it means going backwards later on.
  • It’s essential to define what success means to you personally and not just professionally. It’s not about doing something you’re good at, but finding something that gives you energy and fulfillment.
  • Climbing a mountain (professional or personal) can be frustrating and demotivating, but it doesn’t mean you should give up. Looking back, you may realize that the discomfort was worth it.
  • Having someone to share your experiences and struggles with is crucial. It can be scary and overwhelming to make a change, so having a support system can make a big difference.
  • The concept of “derterminal” (Dutch phrase for “career crisis”) resonates with many people, and it can come at any age. It’s more common than you think, and it may take some time to figure out what truly makes you happy.
  • The importance of practicing what you preach is crucial for personal growth and development. Don’t advice others to take risks if you won’t do the same yourself.
  • A second or third mountain after retirement can be a reality as well. It’s not unusual for people to continue learning new skills or pursuing new passions in different stages of their lives.
  • Passion trumps skills when it comes to enjoying your work. You might be good at something, but lack the passion to continue doing it.

And many more… (continued)