IPC Keynote - RTFM

Discover the importance of kindness, respect, and empathy in software development and community building, and how prioritizing these values can foster a more supportive and inclusive environment.

Key takeaways
  • It’s okay to not know something, and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
  • The “RTFM” attitude is unhelpful and can be alienating.
  • Empathy and understanding are crucial skills in software development and community building.
  • Extreme cases of anger and frustration can be rooted in fear and insecurity.
  • Fighting for and promoting a culture of kindness, respect, and compassion is essential.
  • We should strive to understand and validate each other’s experiences.
  • Not everyone has the same experiences or abilities, and that’s okay.
  • We can all learn from each other’s approaches to growth and development.
  • Being a good developer or programmer is not solely about writing code, but also about being a kind and respectful person.
  • It’s important to listen to and learn from others, even if you think you already know the answer.
  • Avoiding conflict and being a “good guy” can often be a coping mechanism for deep-seated fears or insecurities.
  • Recognizing and acknowledging our own emotions and biases is crucial for effective communication and collaboration.